I am the Grandmother who asked for help with my daughter-in-law not allowing my granddaughter (5 mos) over at?

our house to visit - never been to our home (7 mi.) I wish to thank all folks who sent answers. Sorry I could not choose the best answer as I was away & not feeling well. I would like to thank LindyLou, Nevit, NewNana,Zen,Caligirl82,thee wokprincess,MomBear,jmd72inva,The Scorpion & ModdedMama. You all wrote great answers & helped me so much. I really appreciate everyone taking the time to respond to my Question. I will keep asking questions about this issue. Thanks out there....